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Emotional Effects Of An Abortion



Emotional effects of an abortion include numbness, fear, loneliness, low self-esteem, denial, insomnia, and depression. Repressing guilt feelings over having an abortion can lead to numbness. After the numbness, one may go through a period of denial. Holding feelings in can increase one's tendency to feel anger and rage especially when seeing other mother's with their children. The emotional effects of an abortion will not just go away. A female needs to seek counseling so she can reconcile her own pain. Without counseling there is a chance that the symptoms will excel over time to include a feeling of loneliness. Fear can be present because she will not want anyone to find out about her abortion. This fear will lead to isolation and an even greater feeling of loneliness and despair. Eventually a woman who has had an abortion will suffer with depression along with having insomnia and nightmares. "And Jesus went about all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues, and preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing every sickness and every disease among the people" (Matthew 9:35).



Not being able to sleep will add to the depression to the point that hopelessness and thoughts of suicide may occur. Emotional effects of an abortion are very serious and every woman thinking about terminating a pregnancy should consider what kind of emotional, mental, and spiritual effect it will have on her life. Some women have been known to develop mental disorders from not reconciling their emotions after terminating a pregnancy. Some of the common ones mentioned in various studies include obsessive compulsive disorder, major personality disorder, eating disorders, and anxiety disorders. Post traumatic stress disorder is one of the major occurrences with women who have terminated a pregnancy. The trauma of the ordeal may be relived over and over.



Post traumatic stress disorder does include several major symptoms. Symptoms may include outbursts of anger, irritability, aggressive behavior, extreme responses when startled, anxiety attacks, intense grief, avoidance behavior, sexual dysfunction, substance abuse, destructive tendencies, and suicidal acts. Post traumatic stress disorder symptoms may not show up for years after having an abortion. Women may have relationship problems resulting in divorce or a break-up. Studies have shown that there is a higher risk of child abuse in the home of mother's who have had an abortion. Drug abuse and alcohol abuse are common. All of these symptoms can lead to job loss, auto accidents, and violent behavior. Emotional effects of an abortion should not be taken lightly.



Studies have shown that most women will feel relief right after having an abortion because they were so distressed over having another child. Some women feel that they have been forced into having the procedure. Others may feel relief right away but then guilt feelings take over. Emotional effects of an abortion affect every woman differently. Sometimes it depends upon one's religious beliefs, moral character, and previous psychological problems. If a female believes God's word and that terminating a pregnancy is murder then she will have great difficulty dealing with her decision. The same would be true for someone who has a high standard of morality and personal ethics.



Most all women will experience a feeling of loss and mourn for the lost child. The grief should subside over time and will if the female can reconcile her feelings. For some women this will happen but for others the feelings will increase and lead to behavior changes. This is one good way to judge the emotional effects of an abortion and if one needs to get counseling or not. A change in one's personality is one indication that something is definitely wrong. Feeling angry all of the time and not being able to sleep are other indications that counseling should be sought. Chronic crying and sadness are warning signals. Losing interest in social activities and family time are indicators that one is withdrawing.



Physical complications from having an abortion can precipitate psychological problems. Not being able to have more children can cause a female to be depressed and suffer with other emotional effects of an abortion. Subsequent miscarriages because of physical complications from terminating a pregnancy can take a toll and add to guilt feelings. Feeling confused all the time and not being able to make simple decisions are indicators of emotional distress. Some women who suffer with emotional effects of an abortion may have physical symptoms because of their distress. The symptoms may include nausea, vomiting, stomach pain, exhaustion, withdrawal from relationships, and thoughts of suicide. Becoming complacent with no desire to do anything will be obvious in one's behavior. A female may just lie in bed all the time letting all of the daily chores pile up. She may not have any desire to eat, bathe, dress, or talk to anyone even those she is closest to. The inability to forgive self over having an abortion can lead to thoughts of suicide or actual suicide attempts.



Women who find that they are having difficulty coping should seek professional help. Also, taking one's problems and cares to the Lord can bring about healing and restoration. The Lord is merciful and forgiving. He loves you no matter what sin that you've committed. The main thing to remember though is that He wants us to ask for help. Reading His word everyday can bring about healing and renewal of one's mind. Spending time with Him in prayer will make a big difference in how you cope with life everyday.

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